Welcome to the blog of author Tricia Goyer!

Wednesday, February 28, 2007

Blog Tour for A Valley of Betrayal


Well, it's my turn on Christian Fiction Blog alliance...

Check out the post and then travel around to the different member sites and see what they have to say.
Then starting March 3rd, A Valley of Betrayal is going on an extended blog tour. Here is the schedule so that you can visit these great blogs:


3/4


3/9


3/11


3/15


3/19


4/6

4/9


Too Much Stuff Blog tour

Too Much Stuff...Amen! Kathyrn Porter's book was written with me in mind... I'm sure of it! :)


In Too Much Stuff, Kathryn Porter challenges us to dig into the clutter of our homes and attack the attitudes and behaviors that allow this chaos to immobilize us. While giving practical steps on how to declutter our houses, she shows us how to declutter our hearts by realizing that God loves us through the messes we make and has a plan for us that doesn't involve being confined to clutter.

Too Much Stuff includes:
Reflection questions within each chapter to help you assess the extent of your clutter .

Room-by-room de-cluttering techniques and practical advice on how to keep a clutter free, beautiful home.

Homebuilding sections to remind you to seek God and His word as your foundation
Prayer points in each chapter to help you focus on God throughout your de-cluttering journey

Meet the author:
Kathryn is a fourth generation clutterbug. As a full-time home manager, her passion is in creating a beautiful home for her family.

A recovering “stuffaholic,” Kathryn is a popular speaker who shares faith-based messages on how to keep a clean house. She earned her Master’s degree in Special Education at the University of Colorado at Colorado Springs. She now uses her teaching skills in community workshops to help the “chronically disorganized” transform their homes.

Kathryn is a founding member of Pike’s Peak Professional Organizers (PPPO). She is also a member of the National Association of Professional Organizers (NAPO) and the National Study Group on Chronic Disorganization (NSGCD).

I recently got to interview Kathryn and here is what she had to say:

What prompted you to write this book?

The book came about because I had a message that I didn’t find in any of the other organizing books on the market. I also wanted to be a stay-at-home mom and was looking for a way to produce income while working from home.

Here’s the background: I was raised in a messy home and learned how to keep a messy home. When my husband and I learned we would become parents, I became determined to stop the cycle. In the past, I made excuses for my poor housekeeping, such as “I just need more storage space.” But when we moved into a bigger apartment and then a bigger home, I still didn’t have enough storage space. Now, we had to make room for baby.

I continued to read every organizing and housekeeping book I could get my hands on, but nothing worked long term. Finally, one of my friends gave me some sage advice: “You can’t keep everything and keep a clean house.” That statement changed my life. No one had told me that before, nor was it in any of the books I read. I figured others needed to hear this too. I pursued publication and within less than two years my book was on the market. It even went into a second printing only four months after its release.

Do you follow your own advice? Is your home de-cluttered?

I do my best to create a presentable home following the same advice I offer others. My husband and child enjoy our home because they don’t have to worry about meeting standards of perfection, but we still have specific expectations of clean.

Guests tell me they feel comfortable because they feel a sense of peace when they walk through the entryway. They know that people live here and that it isn’t a showcase home. There may be a stack of mail on the counter that needs sorting or toys on the floor in the TV room, but it’s not an issue. My friends appreciate that I’m realistic when it comes to housekeeping.

What role does faith play in keeping house?

I used to think that faith had nothing to do with keeping house, but now I know that’s wrong. Faith helps me find confidence with every new challenge and contentment when things don’t go as planned.

Our latest challenge is having a new puppy in the house. She’s not housetrained yet and it’s driving me crazy. She will get into anything and everything if she’s not constantly watched. My son also likes to take her dog food and leave little trails around the house like in Hanzel and Gretel. I am confident that “this too will pass” and we will get through this just as we did with previous challenges.

Both work and family keep me busy. Sometimes I have to sacrifice housekeeping for that family time and be content with the way the house looks. For instance, my son discovered his “inner artist.” When I bought him markers, the plan was for him to draw in a notebook, but he has taken to drawing on walls and doors. We currently have Mr. Potato Head on our back door, the itsy bitsy spider on our front door, and Larry Boy from Veggie Tales in our entryway. I haven’t cleaned them off yet because they are kind of cute and I’d like to take a picture of them before I erase them. I’m content to live with our own little version of Rembrandt and enjoy this season in life.

If you could give me just one piece of advice in regards to taking back control of my house, what would it be?

Give yourself permission to let go of some of the things you think you need. It comes down to a choice—we can keep everything we own or we can keep a clean house.

When we get too busy to clean or something happens in life which forces housekeeping to take a back seat to the priority at hand, having less stuff will make it easier to take back control. The less you have, the less you have to clean.

In terms of clutter, it seems that I’m always faced with new challenges, but the underlying mantra that helps me keep things under control is “You can’t keep everything and keep a clean house.”

How do you balance writing with your home and family life?

I do more speaking than writing these days, but balance is an important issue no matter the line of work.

Two things help me stay focused; a mission statement and calendar boundaries. If I have opportunities that don’t align with my mission, then it’s easy to say no. One of the keys to staying balanced is not saying yes to everything. When I’m faced with a lot of opportunities that align with my mission, I’ll then evaluate how they fit with my vision and other elements of my business plan. This helps me to choose between good and best.

My calendar boundaries are my guidelines for accepting work. Notice I said guidelines, not a rigid set of rules. For instance, Sunday is our family day so I mark off every Sunday on our calendar. This is our day of worship as a family and the one day that we don’t make individual plans. Monday is my day of margin. This is my day that when I wake up in the morning, I know I don’t have any commitments on the calendar. I still work, but I don’t schedule meetings, not even lunch dates. Sure, there are times I need to be flexible, but this gives me a structure with which to work.

What are the last five books you read?

I’m a non-fiction kind of girl and especially enjoy books on business and marketing. I read a lot of family and parenting books too. I’m not sure if I can remember exactly what my last five reads were, but here’s a list to the best of my recollection:

Nuts: The Southwest Airlines’ Crazy Recipe for Business and Personal Success
Sam Walton: Made in America
The Big Sister’s Guide to the World of Work: The Inside Rules Every Working Girl Must Know
Mom’s Needs, Dad’s Needs
Love and Respect

What has been the neatest part about being a published author?

The best part about being published is the people I get to meet. I’m not talking about the rich and famous—although I’ve met a few, but everyday Americans. I may meet them in person at a signing or through email after they visit my Web site. Sales figures tell me people are reading my book, but it’s those personal contacts that tell me my book touches people’s lives on a deep level and is making a difference. I love hearing from readers and learning their stories.

Kathryn's website: http://www.clutterwise.com/
Buy the book

Tuesday, February 27, 2007

Interview with Eric Wilson from Bookshelf Review

Here is a an exerpt of an interview with Eric Wilson from The Bookshelf Review...



Q: I recently read Tricia Goyer’s Generation Next Parenting – a wonderful devotional – and I was impressed with how honest she was about her shortcomings and failings. As a writer, you’ve never been shy about sharing what you believe are your mistakes and faults. How important do you think this trait is not only in a writer, but especially a Christian writer?

A: First, I have to say that I love Tricia’s novels, and her parenting book is great. I think any healthy relationship is based on honesty. As an author, I’m entering into a relationship with my readers. I don’t want to dump all my junk on them, but I do want to engage them with characters that are believable and relatable. We’re often taught lofty Christian principles, but many of us struggle with how to apply them in our jobs, schools, and families. I hope to capture some of that struggle in my novels


Wow...thanks Eric and Kevin.

Read the rest of the interview: http://kevinlucia.net/bookreviews/2007/01/interview_with_eric_wilson_aut.html

Monday, February 26, 2007

I'm popular in...South Africa


Who would of thought...South Africa!


A few days ago I was chatting with one of my editors, Andy, at Moody via email. Towards the end of the email was an, "Oh, yeah, I forgot to tell you..."

" A contingency of South African retailers were saying that you do very well in their market. They're excited about fiction right now, and you seem to really resonate with their customers."


Wow, how cool is that! When I began writing, I never imagined that I would 'resonate' with people in Africa. It's amazing the way God works!

Saturday, February 24, 2007

Blog Party!

5 Minutes for Mom is having a blog party.

There will be fun and PRIZES! Click on the blog party icon on my sidebar and check it out!

It will be a week long bash starting March 2, 2007 and ending with the big prize giveaway on March 9, 2007.

All party guests who sign the Mr. Linky by 12pm Eastern on March 8, 2007 and who invited guests (invited friends via a post and have an Invitation Button on their blog) are eligible for the random drawing prizes. Prizes will be announced at 5 Minutes for Mom at 7pm Eastern on March 9, 2007.

Get out there and MINGLE!

Don’t sit in a corner and only chat with people you know! Search the Linky and look for names you don’t recognize and head on over to their place to meet some new people.

And Then… and this is so fun we are just so excited…The week after the Blog Party, write a post and introduce some of the new bloggers you met at the party.

See you there! And check out my site on Thurseday, March 8th and see how I'm joining the party!

Friday, February 23, 2007

My Life unScripted...

Well, even though I'm not quite done writing this book, it's already in the catalogs...I never cease to be amazed at the way the publishing industry works!

Here's the scoop:
Using the metaphor of screenwriting, My Life, Unscripted explores relationships in every teenage girl’s life—with herself, her friends and enemies, her parents, guys, and with God.

Real-life scripts, screenwriting terms, and timely topics, make this an interesting read for teen girls as they delve into their own inner struggles and outward relationships. They’ll also learn the importance of “scripting” their own responses BEFORE challenging life-situations arise. By contrasting real-life with TV or movies, teens will understand they don’t have to get caught up in the drama. They also don’t have to face situations as they arise, but rather they can think about, pray about, and consider how to face these situations before the scene begins.

So, I could really use your prayers as I finish the second half of the book! :)

Thursday, February 22, 2007

Zondervan's Breakfast Club

Hey did you know you can sign up to read Zondervan's newest books?

Just go to their site and sign up for the Zondervan Breakfast Club and they'll send you the first few chapters of their books.

Now you can sample the books before you purchase. How great is that!

Wednesday, February 21, 2007

Wedgewood Grey by John Aubry Anderson

CFBA Blog Tour for Wedgewood Grey


Meet the Author:
John was born five miles north of the setting for Abiding Darkness, a cotton country town within a rifle shot of two rivers, a bayou, a double handful of lakes, and endless acres of woods.

After graduating from Mississippi State, he flew six years in the Air Force then twenty-nine years for a major airline. And now he gets to write.

He and his wife have been married for forty some-odd years and live in Texas--about twenty miles south of the Red River. He spends the biggest part of his time writing; she's immersed in leading a comprehensive women's Bible study.

They like greasy hamburgers and Dr. Pepper, most species of warm-blooded creatures (the kind that don't normally bite), and spending July in the mountains.

About the book:
Wedgewood Grey is the second book in the Black and White Chronicles. The first was Abiding Darkness (August, 2006).

Wedgewood Grey is the second book in the Black and White Chronicles. The first was Abiding Darkness (August, 2006).

Mississippi cotton country . . . in the spring of 1960.

The War At Cat Lake is fifteen years in the fading past . . . but the demonic beings who launched that first battle, are alive and well at Cat Lake. Waiting.
Late on a Friday night, on a muddy little road a mile east of Cat Lake, a ten-year-old black child is forced to watch while a gang of white men beat his mother to death. Aided by Mose Washington, an old black man, the boy exacts a measure of his own revenge. When the sun comes up on Saturday morning, Mose and the boy are fugitives.

Missy Parker Patterson, who as a child stood at the epicenter of the first war, is married and living in Texas. In the aftermath that follows Mose Washington’s disappearance, she goes back to Cat Lake to discover that the demonic beings have been anticipating her return . . . and so begins the second battle of The War At Cat Lake.

In 1962, an old black man and his grandson move into the country near Pilot Hill, Texas. The people in the local area are told that the old gentleman’s name is Mose Mann—his grandson introduces himself as Bill.

However, the lives of the new arrivals are not as peaceful as they seem. The unassuming old black man and his grandson are being pursued by a triad of formidable and unrelenting adversaries . . . a ruthless political leader, an enduring lie, and an invisible army allied beneath the banner of a hatred for God.

Wedgewood Grey is a story about the impact of choices that real people—people like you and me—are sometimes forced to make.

Buy the book:http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0446579505
Author's website: http://www.johnaubreyanderson.com/

Tuesday, February 20, 2007

Look here I am at Border's!


I'm doing a book signing at BORDERS Book Store on
February 24th, from 1-3!

How fun!

And, the winner of the 'Calling all Love Birds' contest is...
Jill Elizabeth Nelson, you are the 'providential' winner of two copies of Valley of Betrayal!
And for those of you who didn't win...don't worry, you've still got a chance!
I'm randomly selecting from everyone who commented on my blogs this month to receive a copy of Valley of Betrayal. So don't lose hope! :)

Monday, February 19, 2007

A Blog Story...Part 6

Okay, now that you are armed with all this great info...when should you start your blog?


Did you think I was going to say “Today”?

Not quite: here are some things to think about...

1. Write down your goals for your blog.

2. Think about the “personality” you’d like to portray.

3. Set priorities. (Is this a priority for you at this time?)

4. Look at your schedule and be realistic.

5. Check out other people’s blogs. Write down what you like and don’t like.

6. Look at Blogger, Typepad, MySpace and other blog hosts and consider your options.

7. Make a blogging plan and stick to it like any other writing and marketing goal!

8. Pray about this as a possible new ministry.

Additional Information:

Christian Fiction Review Blog
http://christianfictionreviewblog.blogspot.com/

Christian Fiction Blog Alliance
http://christianfictionblogalliance.com/

List of Reviewers: http://christianfictionblogalliance.com/REVIEWER_LIST.html


FAVORITE BLOGS:
Novel Journey: http://www.noveljourney.blogspot.com/

Lisa Samson: http://lisasamson.typepad.com/

Dave Long's Faith in Fiction: http://faithinfiction.blogspot.com/

Lisa Koons’s The Uprising: http://theuprising.typepad.com/my_weblog/

Marilynn Griffith's Rhythms of Grace: http://www.marilynngriffith.typepad.com/

Dee Stewarts Christian Fiction: http://christianfiction.blogspot.com/

The Master's Artist: http://tpr.typepad.com/themastersartist/

Girls Write Out: http://www.girlswriteout.blogspot.com/

Forensics & Faith: http://www.forensicsandfaith.blogspot.com/

Romancing the Blog: http://www.romancingtheblog.com/blog/

Deeann Gist's Blog: http://www.deeannegist.com/blog/

Mary DeMuth's Relevant Prose: http://relevantblog.blogspot.com/

Mick Silva's Blog: http://www.yourwritersgroup.com/

Terry Whalin's The Writing Life: http://terrywhalin.blogspot.com/

John Kremer’s: http://www.openhorizons.blogspot.com/

Camy Tang's: http://camys-loft.blogspot.com/

Faithchicks: http://www.faithchicks.com/

Karen Hancock's Blog Writing from the Edge: http://karenhancock.blogspot.com/

SoulScents: http://www.gracereign.blogspot.com/

J Mark Bertrand’s Blog: http://www.jmarkbertrand.com/fictionblog.asp

Charis Connection: http://charisconnection.blogspot.com/

A Life in Pages: Angela Hunt http://alifeinpages.blogspot.com/

Fallible: http://www.fallible.com/

GenXParents: www.genxparents.blogspot.com

Tricia Goyer’s It’s Real Life: www.triciagoyer.blogspot.com

What are some of your favorite blogs? I'd love to check them out!
Happy Blogging...

Saturday, February 17, 2007

Should I Attend a Writer's Conference?

I'm a huge fan of writer's conferences, especially for new writers. In 1994 I attended my first Mt. Hermon Conference. I was 22-years-old and pregnant with my 3rd (yes, 3rd) child. If you would have known me then I was far from what you think of when you think "Christian writer."

1) Everything I know about writing I learned from conference workshops. My first article was accepted through MH. Then, after taking a track on article writing I sold 30 articles in one year. I learned about novel writing there too, and devotional writing, children's writing, non-fiction. And yes, I've been published in them all.

2) I built wonderful friendships through conferences. My 2nd Mt. Hermon I connected with 17 other writers and started a private online prayer and support group. We're still praying and supporting 13 years later. Every conference I attend I meet and make new friends.

3) I connected with editors and agents. I remember Karen Ball and Lisa Bergren sitting down with me and giving me specifics about my first fiction manuscript. It was like one-on-one mentoring. I met with Steve Laube (then with Bethany House) year after year. He gave me specifics too. I also remember the year he read my fiction manuscript and told me, “This is the one …” It was.

I also met with magazine editors and connected with them. One meeting I had with Jon Walker (then with HomeLife) led to an amazing relationship with that magazine and DOZENS of articles being publishing with them and other LifeWay publications.

4) My connection to my agent, Janet Grant, came through Mt. Hermon, too. I was one of her first clients, and I’m SO thankful to still be with her.

5) Over the years, as I’ve been publish more, I’ve also enjoyed meeting others at writer’s conferences and giving back. Though I wasn’t official on staff, I’ve met and mentored dozens of new writers, and I’m trilled to see them succeed.

6) Finally, I drew closer to God at Mt. Hermon. I remember early, morning prayer and worshipping in the auditorium. I remember praying under the blooming trees and praying with friends, editors, people I’ve never met before—you name it. I remember the many, encouraging message I learn that reminded me: “It’s about God, not you, honey.” Those messages have kept me grounded.

This year, I’ll be teaching at my first national conference. I’ll be teaching a historical fiction track at ACFW. I’m thrilled because I feel this is my chance to share what was freely given to me: time, knowledge, understand, and . . . hope. Hope that God can use us to share His goodness through the written word.

Friday, February 16, 2007

Guest Blogger...Stacy Stallings

Hi, everyone,

Yesterday I was reading "If You want to walk on water" by John Ortberg (still highly recommended!). He told of an experiment done by an art teacher. This was in a ceramics, pot-making class. He said that the class was divided into two groups. One would receive their final grade based on the quantity of pots they were able to make (50 lbs/A, 40 lbs/B, and so on). The other half would be graded only on quality. They only had to make one pot as long as it was excellent. The experiment began.

One group set about making as many as they could--some small, some large. Pot after pot they made pieces. The other group strategized. They studied the art of masters, did preliminary drawings and indepth calculations, and finally they made their pot. Do you know which group made the most beautiful pots in the end?

(Freaked me out too!)

The group that were being judged on quantity also ended up with the most quality pots. Why? Because they learned from their mistakes. As they made pots, big pots, little pots, mistake pots--they learned how to do it better. In the end they were making beautiful, exquisite quality pots. Those who only made one were beset with mistakes they hadn't anticipated and all their strategizing and studying turned out to count for much less than those who did less strategizing and more making.

I thought this was a great metaphor for my own advice to writers when they ask how to learn to write: WRITE. Write emails, write in your journal, write a novel, write articles, write non-fiction, write every assignment you can get your hands on. But write.

As you write, you will learn. Because there is no final grade for this (and thus no reason to actually make your final "pot"), you can literally spend your whole life making plot point charts and character sketches and editing each paragraph until your eyes bleed, but in the end what will help you to become a better writer is to write. Write, write, write. Edit. Write, write, write. Edit. Write some more. That's how you learn.

Don't you love how God takes a lesson from one area or set of people and so easily transfers the lesson to another? He is so cool!

Peace,
Staci Stallings
www.stacistallings.com
You'll feel better for the experience!

Thursday, February 15, 2007

I've Been Tagged...

by Lena Nelson Dooley to tell 6 weird things about myself...

Weird? I am sooooooo not weird, odd maybe, but not weird! :)

Okay, here goes it...

1. I don't like talking on the phone. I like email much better. Most of the time when someone calls I let the phone ring--bad, I know!

2. I love (I don't know if love is a strong enough word) People magazine. I subscribe even. I find people so interesting ... I love reading about people's quirks.

3. I almost never paint my nails or have them done, BUT I can't type if I cut my nails. I need them long to work, go figure.

4. I love to read people's facial expressions and try to figure out what's going on in their heads. Most of the time I'm right.

5. I'd rather wear sweats and t-shirts any day than dress up. Comfy rules. Fluffy socks are the best.

6. I have to have something to drink when I'm at my computer. No, not THAT kind of
drink . . . Coffee, Diet Pepsi, and Zipfizz are my top choices. (Red Bull if the deadline is urgent!)


Okay, Tag you're it: Gina, Cara, Leticia, Amy, Julie Carobini, Jessica, Lesley,




Oh, and don't forget to leave comments on the blog for a chance to win your very own copy of Vally of Betrayal...one for you and one for your sweetie!


Wednesday, February 14, 2007

Chocolate Beach by Julie Carobini

What better way to celebrate Valentine's Day than blogging about a book with the word CHOCOLATE in it's title!

Julie is one of my writer friends. Like my new book, Valley of Betrayal, Julie's book, Chocolate Beach, was also released this month. I'll give you a little blurb about the book and then let Julie tell you about herself in an interview!

Meet Bri Stone, a laid-back “beach chick” from Ventura, California. Bri has it all: the man of her dreams and their surf-ridin' teenage son, a chocolate-loving best pal, an adorable beach bungalow, and a kicky job as a Southern California tour bus host.

She also has a few things she didn't ask for: a know-it-all friend, a snobby mother-in-law, and a Fabio-meets-Dilbert boss. Ack! All three of them seem eager to share their strong opinions and suspicions about Bri's relationship with her husband, Douglas.

When Bri's rose-colored sunglasses crack after she finds evidence that Douglas has grown tired of her carefree ways, she resolves to win him back.

Can she reinvent herself—and recapture her husband’s heart?

Well, I loved finding out, but I won't spoil it for the rest of you!

Let's meet Julie...
What inspired you to write Chocolate Beach?

First, I wanted to write a book set in one of my favorite locales—the California coast. Then I began to think about relationships, and how people often marry their opposites. What happens to them down the road? How do they deal with their differences? Are they still charmed by each other, or bugged? In Chocolate Beach, Bri Stone has always found solace in chocolate and the beach, but will these things get her through when she faces serious questions about her marriage?

Are there any new projects on the horizon?

Yes! Watch for A Curious Thing about Seashells (working title) in Summer 2008. It’s the story of Bri’s best friend, Gaby Flores. See my website for more info: http://www.juliecarobini.com/

Do you prefer to write contemporary chick-lit fiction?

Yes! I read all sorts of genres, but found my voice in Chick-lit. It’s sassy and fun, and allows me to tell stories of life’s challenges in an entertaining way.

Who are your readers?

My readers are the “young at heart.” Mostly women, they are aware of current trends and technology, yet they like to giggle through a good story. They also love to bond with other women over a hot cup of coffee or tea, and of course, designer chocolates!

What are some of the challenges you face as an author?


It can be so tough to find unobstructed time to actually write when there are so many other things vying for my attention: proposing new books, marketing current ones, writing articles, and most especially, caring for my family of five.

How do you keep your sanity in our run, run world?


Actually? I’m often overwhelmed. I must pray a lot—and God always steps in
Attending a regular Bible study helps too, because it keeps me focused on what God thinks about my busy life! I also jog on the beach, take a spinning class, and drink (too much) coffee.


What advice would you give to a person trying to become a fiction writer?

I address this on my new website. First, find every opportunity to read. Next, make sure you actually enjoy the process of writing before investing your life into it. Finally, get help. Go to writer’s conferences and watch how the experts do it; make friends at those conferences, the kind who will cheer you on in the days ahead (and who you can cheer along too!); and invest in yearly guides such as Sally Stuart’s Christian Writers’ Market Guide.

As a writer, I know the writing journey is also a spiritual journey. What has God taught you thought the process?

You've got that right, Tricia. It is a spiritual journey as well, because the gift of creativity is from God in the first place. We're made in his image, you know? And he's the most creative image ever! Regarding the writing journey, God has taught me to expect to receive input from him, that his timing is perfect, and that when I'm unsure if particular nigglings are from him, he will confirm it.

What do your kids think of the book? How do you balance being an author and being a mom?

My kids all keep Chocolate Beach postcards in their school binders, lol, even my 3rd grader. They're stoked that Mom's a writer, and I'm thrilled by their support. I try hard to write when they're in school or late at night when they're in bed, but if I'm on a particular deadline, that might not work out. So much for balance. They're flexible, though, because they know that they come first in my heart. I spend most afternoons driving them around town, making sure that they don't miss out on events just because I'm a busy writer. And we eat dinner together as a family more often than not.

Who encourages you during days when writing gets too hard?

My chocolate stash--ha! Seriously, I've got some great writing friends who've been there (like you :) and are willing to offer a needed shoulder. Also, my husband, mom, and a couple of girlfriends are just a phone call away, and I've been known to dial them up on those kinds of days. And God. I don't mean that to sound like a cliche, but God comes through during those times with an 'out of the blue' encouraging verse, or through the people he's put in my life. He's amazing.

Buy the book here

Thanks for coming over Julie!

Tuesday, February 13, 2007

A Blog Story...Part 5


Okay, now that we've talked about what doesn't work on a blog and where to go for help, let's talk about probably the two biggest obstacles to blogging--TIME and IDEAS!

Where can you find both?

TIME
1. Join forces, find other like-minded people and figure out a schedule. Gina Conroy started a blog for moms who are writers (publishing and unpubbed). Her blog now has 400+ links to it! Of course, our CAN blog is another great example.

Writer Mom Interrupted
http://writermominterrupted.blogspot.com/

CAN Book Marketing
http://canblog.typepad.com/canbookmarketing/

2. Host your own blog with guest bloggers. This is great if you don’t think you can blog everyday. Ask others to contribute. I do this through my posts such as “10 Questions For . . .” and my current one “10 Things I Wish I’d Known.”


3. Write many blogs ahead of time then post every morning.

4. Write your blogs and then recruit help for posting. (I have an assistant who does this. I just email what I want posted.)

IDEAS
1. Be real. Think about things you share with your friends over coffee . . . these are great things to blog about.

2. Think about common questions you receive about your life and writing. Answer them in blog form. (Share the behind-the-scenes of your book. Talk about your motivation for writing. Tell about how you hope to touch readers’ lives. Chat about how readers have responded to your book.)

3. Think story. Don’t only think about relating information. Use a story to relate a part of you.

4. Think “felt need.” It’s not about YOU it’s about the reader. What are they going to get out of the blog?

How have you battled the issue with not being able to find time and not having any "fresh" ideas? Do tell!


Sunday, February 11, 2007

Renovating Becky Miller

Last July at ICRS (International Christian Retail Show) I went to lunch with a group of friends from the Christian Authors Network. One of them was Sharon Hinck. We gathered a few looks as we walked along. You see, Sharon was in a SuperMOM outfit to promote her book The Secret Life of Becky Miller. (Seriously, it had a red cape and everything.) Only someone with a fun, spunky and crazy personality would do something like that.

Now, a second book has hit the shelves this month: Renovating Becky Miller. I LOVE home decorating/remodeling shows. I love fun, crazy people/characters. This book has both.
Sharon brings her same-real life fun into the lives of her characters. In fact, they come to life within the pages of this book.

Here is a short description:
Young mom Becky Miller daydreams about the happy endings she sees during her weekly movie nights with her husband. But problems mount with the remodeling of the new house. Her mother-in-law moves in, her eldest son gets in trouble at school, her sister arrives for a visit, her best friend starts acting weird, and work becomes more stressful than ever before. Can Becky stop trying to fix everything and let God renovate her heart so she can find her own happy ending?

SHARON HINCK, the author of The Secret Life of Becky Miller, is a wife and mother of four who holds an M.A. in Communication and spent ten years as the artistic director of a Christian performing arts group. She has been a church youth worker, a choreographer and ballet teacher, a home-school mom, a musician, and manager of a direct sales craft business. She and her family currently reside in Bloomington, Minnesota.

To end, I'm stealing a line I heard about Sharon's writing: Sharon's stories for the heroes in all of us. I agree! Check it out!

Saturday, February 10, 2007

Beyond Valentine's Day

I went to lunch with a friend yesterday who is having major marriage problems. We've committed to getting together weekly to pray and study the Bible, but one thing she said stood out to me.

"My marriage has been rocky for the eleven years we've been together and Valentine's Day is the worse holiday ever. I wish it would just go away."

Just a few weeks ago I turned in my manuscript for Generation NeXt Marriage. And the more I talked with people, the more I realized that EVERY marriage has relationship struggles. Mine included.

Another thing I've realized is the for most marriages it isn’t major problems that keep us apart, but rather putting ourselves in cruise control . . . which means we aren’t proactive in meeting the needs of the other person, or communicating our own needs.

Slowly, unknowingly, we cruise apart without even sensing the growing chasm between us.

So, my question is, in what ways can marriage partners assess the health of their marriage BEFORE a problems surface? Have you done this? What has helped you?

I'd love to hear your comments because not only has this been on my heart lately, I have a short article due MONDAY! (Hahaha ... honestly I don't try to wait until the last minute. Life just works out this way.)
Any advice?

Friday, February 09, 2007

A Blog Story...Part 4


Now that you know what a blog is, what a blog is for, why you should have one, and how to have a successful blog; let's talk about what doesn't work and where else to go for help!


What doesn’t work:

People get tired to too much self-promotion or the same old stuff.

They don’t like it when there are no updates.

Long-winded.

Unorganized.

Boring.

No point.

Too spiritual sounding.

Where do go for blogging resources?

Who is visiting? From where? For how long?
http://www.statcounter.com/

Who is talking about you and your blog? What are the most common searches?
http://technorati.com/

Help people stay connected by allowing them to sign up for your blog:
http://www.feedblitz.com/

An easy way to add links to your blog:
http://www.blogrolling.com/


Any one have any funny blog stories?

Thursday, February 08, 2007

What a Character?!

One of my favorite things about writing is creating characters. I love figuring people out. I want to know what makes them tick. I search hard to figure out their greatest hopes, dreams and fears. I want to know what they want most of all, and then put conflict in their lives that will keep them from that one thing. (Mean, I know.)

Of course, I can't stay mean for the whole book. In the end my characters either reach their one goal, or they decide on a new, better goal. (One they wanted all along but didn't realize.)

When I first started writing I didn't understand this concept. When I thought "character" I thought of looks, personality, and clothes (yes, clothes) first. It was like playing Barbies. Or those new Dress Up Games that all the teens are doing now. (It's a game I had to try. How do I look? And if you didn't know, the little dress up girl is an avatar. See I'm a hip mom!)

Dress Up Games, Doll Makers and Cartoon Dolls @ The Doll Palace

I look pretty, don't I? And that Oscar is a nice touch, BUT it's far from the real me. And the same is true for your characters. To know them, really know them, you need to go deeper. Believe me, it will make all the difference to your readers.

If your working on a fictional character, here are some good questions to ask:


  • What does my character want more than anything?
  • What will keep her from her goal?
  • What are her inner strengths?
  • What are her inner weaknesses?
  • Why does she want to reach her goal?
  • What will she do to achieve it?
  • How will her strengths help her achieve it?
  • What is opposite of her goal? Would there EVER be a time she'd consider doing the opposite? When ... Why ... ?
  • Who can help her achieve her goal?
  • Who will stand in her way?
  • What would cause my character to change her goal?
  • If her goal changes, how is the new goal better/different than before?

These questions are a great place to start. I also recommend three other books that really helped me:

Writing the Breakout Novel Workbook, Donald Maass
Getting into Character, Brandilyn Collins
45 Master Characters, Victoria Lynn Schmidt

After all, your character is more than just a pretty face. Right? (Although I have to admit these avatars are pretty cute and fun to play with!)








God is Everywhere

Lately I've been seeing God everywhere ... or at least His children at work, giving honor to His name. Even in the media. Especially in the media.

One of the things I'm most excited about is the movie The Last Sin Eater. Francine Rivers is one of my favorite authors and I love this book! In fact, I've purchased it more than once because I keep lending it out!

I'm bummed the movie isn't playing anywhere near me. Also, I haven't found any place to pre-order a copy on-line. So I suppose I'll have to be patient!

In the meantime, I'll have to enjoy some of my other great media finds. The first is a new reality series on NBC--You're the One that I Want: Grease
Since we record the shows we like and watch them through the week, I was little behind ... but I enjoyed catching up! I watched the most recent show last night and I loved getting to know the finalist better.




Of course, I have a favorite: Kathleen

They've dubbed her "Spiritual Sandy" which I thought was great. Here is a bit of her bio from the NBC website:

Though Kathleen's dream her whole life has been to be a Broadway star, she met the man she wanted to marry right after college. Frank and Kathleen were introduced at Christian City Church - Manhattan (C3M) by mutual friends (and pastors of the church). Kathleen now is a worship leader (she says it's like the band leader) at C3M. She says for the first time her priorities shifted and while the dream for Broadway was just as big, marrying Frank had become bigger and more important. Although she puts her marriage first, Kathleen refuses to give up on her dream to star on Broadway and Frank is very supportive.

How can you not LOVE that? Of course, this girl can really sing too.


Finally, my last favorite find is my new exercise video ... honestly. I've heard of TaeBo for years, but truthfully it just seemed too hard to try.

Then I found the Believer's Workout on-line. I loved that Billy started the video with a prayer ... and that he prayed in the name of Jesus Christ. I also love that the moves were easy to follow and not too fast. And throughout the video Billy talked about finding strength in Jesus. I also love my aching muscles, which means it was a good workout.

So, where have you found God lately? The movies, TV, and an exercise video? Yeah, me too.



Wednesday, February 07, 2007

A Blog Story...Part 3


In part 1 and part 2 of A Blog Story series, I talked about what blogging is and why it's important...today I'm humbly offering advice on how to make your blog ROCK!


TIPS for a successful blog.


1. Make the blog page pretty to look at. Use a design that appeals to the eye. There are plenty of free ones, or you can hire someone to create one for you.

Here is an example:
Girls, God and the Good Life
http://girlsgodgoodlife.blogspot.com/

2. When it comes to the content: Get to the point.

3. Bloggers are more likely to read short posts than long ones.
4. Keep the post simple. If you have more than one point, make them into different blogs.

5. Show lots of white space—which means only a few sentences per line.

6. Make it scannable. Bold your main points. Bloggers might only visit once a week, then scan down to see what you’ve written about.

7. Think of catchy titles. Why would someone want to read your post in comparison to the other 60 million out there?

8. Allow comments. Blog readers LOVE reading comments—sometimes even more than the blogs themselves. Yes, it’s true some people post bad things, but in all my time of blogging I’ve only had one or two that were SPAM. Instead I’ve made it so the comments come to my Inbox. This allows me to read what’s being posted. And if there is anything I don’t want, I delete it right away. You can also use word verification … which keeps spammers away. And you can moderate your comments, which means that you have to approve them before they are posted. (But personally, I don’t like that. I like instead feedback.)

9. Reply to comments that people make on your page. And comment on other’s pages. (Also understand people place a value on your blog by the number of comments. If someone sees a blog that never has comments, then they figure it must not be that interesting.)

10. End your blog with a question for readers that will encourage them to respond, such as “How do you like my new cover?”

11. Post regularly. For some, this means daily or a even few times a day. For others it means weekly. Just be consistent. If you only can commit to weekly, let your readers know that up front.

Roxanne Henke’s Weekly Diary
http://www.roxannehenke.com/diary/

12. Consider your boundaries—think about how much you like to share, how your family feels about your posts, how much you like people to know about you. Blogs can be personal or informational … you draw the line. Don’t talk about other people unless you have their permission.

13. Consider your brand. How are you known? How do you want to be known? What draws readers to your books? Example: Chick lit bloggers have fun, light blogs.

Excellent examples:
Angela Hunt
http://alifeinpages.blogspot.com/

Brandilyn Collins
http://forensicsandfaith.blogspot.com/

Girls Write Out
http://girlswriteout.blogspot.com/

Robin Lee Hatcher
http://robinlee.typepad.com/

14. Remember they are real people out there who just want to connect. How can you reach through their computer screen and influence them?

15. Read other people blogs and see what they are doing.

16. Comment on other people’s blogs (this builds readership for your blog too!) Again, sometimes comments are the best part. Through comments you meet new people, banter, share thoughts, add insight, challenge comments, and build community.

17. Post photos. People love a visual to connect with the words.

18. Join communities through blog rings or blog alliances. You can also ask other bloggers to share links. There are even awards given out now for the best blogs.

Christian Fiction Blog Alliance
http://christianfictionblogalliance.com/

Christian Women Online Blog Awards
http://www.christianwomenonline.net/blog_awards.html

19. Humor works. People love to be entertained. You can write about the simplest things and yet interest people if you do it in a humorous way.

Fallible
http://www.fallible.com/

20. Offer free stuff. Draw names from the people who comment.

Okay, now you've heard all my great ideas...what are some of your's?


Tuesday, February 06, 2007

A Blog Story...Part 2

What is a blog?

Yesterday I talked about who's is reading blogs and who should be blogging. So today, let's look at blogging itself.

According to Wikipedia, a blog is a website where entries are m