Welcome to the blog of author Tricia Goyer!

Thursday, November 30, 2006

Things I'd Wish I'd Known
(about writing fiction)

1. You don't need to spend three days figuring out what your character is going to wear, if you don't know what he is going to do.

2. SASE means self-addressed stamped envelope.

3. At writer's conferences editors will think more about your new idea . . . than your new shoes.

4. Always check the spelling of an editor's name on your query twice. Three times if it's Goss.

5. Everything you write in your journal is not worthy of a headline story in Today's Christian Woman.

6. Praying for God to help your writing isn't nearly as effective as praying He'll use you to reach His world.

7. Dust bunnies like to travel in packs and taunt you as you write.

8. As deadline nears cleaning toilets sounds like fun.

9. Your editor didn't mean to make you cry. For some reason he thought his job was to help you write a better book.

10. It's okay to be mean to your characters . . . they won't be the ones giving the eulogy at your funeral no matter how real they seem in your mind.

Wednesday, November 29, 2006

Real Life means that sometimes there are plot twists in our daily lives--things we never suspect, but wonderful surprises all the same.

My Thanksgiving vacation (that we planned at the last minute) was wonderful. First ,we traveled down to Redwood City, California to see my cousin, Melissa.

Melissa and her boyfriend asked John and I to be the godparents to her son Diego. Melissa has an amazing story that I'll have to share some day. (It deserves a blog in it's own right.) Let's just say her story includes being stuck in a foreign country because of September 11th and birthing her first son, when she was just fifteen-years-old, away from her family and friends. (And that's just the begininning!) We enjoyed every minute with Melissa and her family, and I miss them tons.

After that we took a little road trip down to LA where I met three of my four sisters for the first time. Blah, blah, blah, I could go on and on about how this was one of the best experience of my life. My sisters are wonderful . . . fun . . . and such a gift.

We spent one day at Knotts Berry Farm and the other cruising Hollywood. (And if you see a few blogs below we unexpectedly came upon my friend, Keanu, as we were strolling down Hollywood Blvd.) But even seeing him wasn't near as exciting as meeting my sisters.

As you can tell from the photos, we had tons of fun.

After that we headed back up to Oregon. (Us and thousands of other cars!) We landed in Medford, Oregon where we had Thanksgiving with members of my family at the home of two of my dearest friends from High School.

And then we visited my aunt, and other cousins, where my grandma had a chance to meet her newest great-grandson.

Overall, it was a great trip. Oh yes, and as we drove I was able to write in the car. Just give me my notebook computer, ear plugs, and a Starbucks Vanilla latte, and, boy, can I pound the words out. Now that's real life writing!

Gee, maybe I need another vacation so I can finish this novel!

Tuesday, November 28, 2006

10 Questions for Donita Paul

10 Questions for Donita Paul

1.. Tricia: Donita, first of all, I think I have your biggest fan living in my house. My twelve-year-old loves your books. When did you first decide to write about dragons?

Donita: January 22, 2002.

2.. Tricia: What is the most interesting comment you've received from a fan?

Donita: Interesting question. A mother wrote to me that her son would not read. She forced him to start reading DragonSpell, and now he is a voracious reader.

3.. Tricia: Donita, you blog on http://girlsgodgoodlife.blogspot.com/. You also have many online chats, on-line games, etc. Why is connecting with young people important to you?

Donita: There are so many negative forces out there influencing our young people. I hope, by interacting with them, I can negate some of the poison being thrown at their minds.

4.. Tricia: New shoes or new earrings?

Donita: New earrings. In fact, I have too many earrings, but I still buy more. And I like making earrings.

5.. Tricia: When was the last time you giggled? What typically makes you laugh?

Donita: I giggle all day long. I giggled over the answer to the first question.

6.. Tricia: Fantasy has a dedicated fan base. What do Fantasy readers expect in a novel?

Donita: Good versus evil on a grand scale. A hero who is unimpressive on the surface, yet vanquishes the villain through developing attributes of courage and cunning. They want hope and adventure.

7.. Tricia: Tell me about your writing process.

Donita: I am a seat-of-the-pants writer.

8.. Tricia: If you had to create a new recipe that your main character--and your kids--would enjoy . . . what would it include?

Donita: We do this all this the time. The recipes are on the website, www.dragonkeeper.us. My favorite is flatworm soup.

9.. Tricia: If you had a dragon for a pet, what would you name him/her? Why?

Donita: So-so. I like the way it sounds, and being the only dragon in the world I wouldn’t want him to get a big head.

10.. Tricia: What book is currently on the top of your to-be-read pile?

Donita: Writing Magic by Gail Carson Levine, author of Ella Enchanted, and 50 Days of Heaven by Randy Alcorn. I like reading books that give me information that will improve my walk with God and my writing craft. I usually read two books at a time, and I read a lot more fiction than I do nonfiction. You just happened to have asked me when I had two non-fiction on my side table.

In HIS Love,
Donita K. Paul
DragonKnight, WaterBrook, June 2006
www.dragonkeeper.us

Monday, November 27, 2006

I'm Home!


I'm still trying to recover from the whirlwind trip to California, but I can sum it up in one word, AWESOME. I had a fantastic time meeting three of my sisters for the first time. They are great. I love them!

Do you see any similiar features? I think our dad had strong genes.

Here are a few photots:

(Tricia, my sister Lesley, my sister Stacey, my daugter Leslie)






(Tricia, Stacey, Leslie, and Melissa)



















(Melissa with Annabelle and Gabriel)















(Leslie with Aunt Stacey. They even have the same hair!)

Sunday, November 26, 2006

You never know who you'll see strolling down Hollywood Blvd.


Thursday, November 23, 2006

I'm Thirteen and I love your book...

I got a kick out of an email I received last week.


I am reading Dawn of a Thousand Nights.. I'm almost done and i love it! I am a Christian.. And I love WWII aircraft (I really like
P-40s). And I am 13..

I just wanted to say you are a great author....


He even sent me a picture...


Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Thankful

(My daughter Leslie with her Aunt Stacey (left), Aunt Melissa (middle), and cousin Annabelle ... meeting for the first time!)


Okay, right now I'm cruising down I-5 on our way to Medford, Oregon for Thanksgiving. I have this amazing air card that allows me to surf the Internet on my notebook computer as we drive. Yeah technology~

One of my favorite things lately is listening to all the music on MySpace.com. You can stream the songs and listen to them. I love it!

I have to share a GREAT song! It's by my sister Melissa. We're listening to her sing right now as we pass through Sacramento, and I'm tearing up. Yes, I'm a proud big sister. Check her out at: http://www.myspace.com/melissarenner

Melissa's song reminds me of what we can all be truly thankful for.

Happy Thanksgiving!
Tricia

Poster Contest!


Here's another GREAT entry in the poster contest...

...and it looks so WARM there...right now in northwest Montana it's below freezing and snowing!

brrrrrrrr...

(You still have about 10 days to get your pictures in before the contest ends on December 1st!)

Tuesday, November 21, 2006

Veteran's Day Thank You


Here is a letter from one of my Veteran friends, Allen Cramer...

Thank you so much, Tricia, for including me in your Veterans' Day greeting. It was very touching. As these special days unfold each year they never cease to amaze me that so much time as gone by since I was a soldier in Europe in World War II.

The war was over in 1945, I was still alive, and I would soon be going home. I was all of twenty years old with two and one-half years of Army service. Now sixty-one years have passed, Natalie and I will soon be celebrating our sixtieth wedding anniversary and our two sons are both well into their fifties.

But no regrets, we continue to enjoy a somewhat quieter lifestyle but still very rewarding. I would like to attach a picture of Natalie and me taken in our living room just before we left for a large family dinner to celebrate Natalie's 80th birthday last month on Oct. 14. Stay well, and don't forget to let me know when your website with WWII stories of the veterans is up and running.

Allen

P.S. I loved seeing your picture that accompanied the Veterans' Day greeting. It is great and we will save it in our permanent files.


Allen began his WWII service in the Army in June of 1943. He was in the 11th Armored Division that took part in liberating Mauthausen and Gusen concentration camps in Austria in the spring of 1945.

To learn more about some of my other veteran friends go here and to learn more
about the concentration camps go to the From Dust and Ashes website, http://www.goyerink.com/triciagoyer/www/dustandashes/news.html. Also, watch for more of Allen Cramer's story on Unforgettable Stories from World War II.

Monday, November 20, 2006

10 Questions for Gayle Roper...

10 Questions for Gayle Roper...

Gayle writes for people like herself, readers who enjoy both good writing and a good time reading. Her novels are full of suspense laced with humor, with romance and with a bite as she looks at the various issues that touch our lives and a Christian response to these issues. Though she writes about things like unwed pregnancies, spousal abuse and homosexuality, they are so integrated into a story that brims with suspense, mystery, laughs and romance that readers do not feel lectured to or preached at. Gayle knows that story telling is the first responsibility of a novelist.
Here is Gayle on her wedding day in 1963!

1.. Tricia: Tell me a little about yourself and your writing.

Gayle: I've been writing for over thirty-five years. My first book, a mystery published by Moody Press, has a copyright date of 1970 in it. Just thinking about it makes me feel old. (: The truth of the matter is that I never planned to be a writer. It's one of those God-things where He opens up parts of you that you never even knew were there.

2.. Tricia: I first met you in 1994 at the Mt. Hermon Christian Writers Conference. You were such an encouragement to me. Why is it important for you to give back to new authors?

Gayle: I come from a family of teachers, and I love to teach. Originally I taught junior high English. It was natural to want to teach writers when I became one, and it's great fun because they come to conferences on purpose to learn. I think of it as extending that right hand of fellowship in a very practical way. I love taking a new writer and helping him or her hone the talent that is there. I get great joy when one of my students lands a contract.

3.. Tricia:You've been a finalist for both the Rita and the Christy awards, and you won the Rita. Congrats! What is the best compliment you've ever received about your writing?

Gayle: The awards are fun and encouraging, but the best reward is when what you write touches someone, like the lady who wrote that she laughed out loud in the collapsed bed scene in AUTUMN DREAMS, and said she hadn't laughed much recently. After she signed her name, she put a PS: I'm divorced. Her life had been hard recently, and laughing was a wonder to her. How wonderful to help make that happen! That's the kind of "compliment" I treasure.

4.. Tricia: You often write and speak about life's little interruptions. What is one interruption that you at first complained about, but later saw it as a gift from God?

Gayle: When I was in my mid-twenties, I had a total hysterectomy because of a run-in with cancer and a severe case of endometriosis. That meant no kids for Chuck and me. In time we adopted our sons, Chip and Jeff, now young men with families of their own. What was a definite interruption in what we expected to be the pattern of our lives was God's provision for Chip and Jeff and His gift to us of a family.

5.. Tricia: As you know, Gayle, my husband John and I are in the process of adopting a child. I know you've adopted two boys. How has adoption helped you understand God's love on a whole new level?

Gayle: When Moses was adopted by Pharaoh's daughter, he was put in the palace to prepare him for the call God had on his life. I see something similar in God's placing of our boys. Here they got a strong Christian background, the opportunity for higher education, etc. They had the opportunity to prepare for God's call on their lives. But the great thing to remember is that when we believe in Jesus, God adopts us as his sons and daughters, loved as He loves his Only Son. What a special thing that is!

6.. Tricia: Umbrella, sunscreen, or snow boots, which would you pack for your "dream vacation."

Gayle: Sunscreen, though anywhere interesting is fine with me. My ideal would be a place on the beach somewhere. In reality we have a cottage in the Canadian woods on a lake my husband's been going to since he was 10 or 11. Summers there are warm and lovely-the beach without the sand. We love it, and better yet, so do our kids and grandkids.

7.. Tricia: Allah's Fire is a bit different from some of your other novels . . . or is it? How do they compare and contrast?

Gayle: Allah's Fire differs in a couple of ways. First it's the first thing I've ever co-written. I wrote all the women and my co-writer, Chuck Holton, a former Army Ranger, wrote all the men who are part of a Special Forces explosives unit. It took TIME! I couldn't write my next chapters until Chuck wrote his and vice versa. Secondly it involves the military and current events in a way my other books don't. No one in my family has been in the service, so it's not an area I know in any detail in spite of reading military thrillers. I learned a lot from Chuck in the process of writing. But on the other hand, the book is the same in that it's about people's struggles with their relationships to God and each other. It's about finding that special someone who comes to mean so much to you. It's about seeing God's hand where you saw only chaos and tragedy.

8.. Tricia: If you had a week's worth of free time to kick back and relax, what are the top three books on your to-be-read pile?

Gayle: My to-be-read pile always reaches to the ceiling. I'm what a friend calls a serial novelist-meaning that you finish one, set it down with one hand as you pick up the next with the other. I enjoy mysteries and romantic suspense. I just finished listening to a JD Robb (I love to listen to books on tape.) I'm reading a Lisa Scottoline right now. She's local and I love the local color. In non-fiction I'm reading Peter Scazzero's Emotionally Healthy Spirituality.

9.. Tricia: If you met a new novelist today and you only had time to offer one tip, what would it be?

Gayle: Persevere. There are many more of us (writers) than there are of them (publishers). More writers fail because they give up than because they can't write.

10.. Tricia: Finally, a common saying states, "Behind every great man is a good woman." What is behind every great writer?

Gayle: For one, my mother. Mom was a great reader, and she taught me the joy of books. Reading and reading and reading, especially what you write, is so important to a writer. For another, my husband Chuck whom I call my own personal patron of the arts. He has been supportive of my writing, no easy task for a Ph.D scientist who likes to see absolutes. As anyone in the writing field knows, there is nothing cut and dried about this industry and nothing stable about the income level. But he's always been there, and I am very appreciative!

Gayle Roper
http://www.gayleroper.com/
ALLAH'S FIRE, now available!
She wanted to save her sister; he wanted to save the world.

Saturday, November 18, 2006

Greetings from Northern California!

Well, we've driven over 1,000 miles and we've survived. No, wait, it's been fun!

Today we even took time to stretch our legs. I stopped in at Family Christian Store in Bend, Oregon and left a gift bag of goodies for the manager--a few books, info about me, CHOCOLATE.

Then, tonight we had dinner with my friend, Cindy and her family.

Tomorrow we'll be heading to the Bay Area to visit my cousin and her two boys.

I'm also researching, writing, and emailing on the road. Technology is wonderful!

Friday, November 17, 2006

No one doubts that sexual activity is physically, emotionally, and socially dangerous.

What are the risks? Here is . . . The Top 10 List

10. The risk of death. More than 600,000 cases of AIDS have been reported in the United States since 1981, and as many as 900,000 Americans may be infected with HIV.

1 Corinthians 6:18 says, "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body."

9. The risk of lost relationships. When you choose to develop a sexual relationship with someone, you've immediately changed the definition of the relationship. There is no such thing as casual sex. Once you have developed a sexual relationship, that relationship turns a critical corner. After the relationship ends, you and your partner will experience that guilt and pain of promises broken.

Hebrews 12:16 says, "See that no one is sexually immoral, or is godless like Esau, who for a single meal sold his inheritance rights as the oldest son."

8. Risks of incurable disease. Imagine that you have found that one special person with whom you want to share your life ... and now you are forced to break the news that you have an incurable disease. Even though such diseases like herpes are generally not considered life threatening, there are no cures. Not only is it incurable, it fills a life with worries, awkward revelations, and continuous need for medication.

1 Corinthians 6:13 says, "The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body."

7. The risk of damaging the destiny of your future marriage. There is no way that premarital sex of any kind could be a positive thing for your future marriage. (Just ask my husband how he feels "knowing" about my past.) It only causes suspicion, mistrust, and regret.

Hebrews 13:4 says, "Marriage should be honored by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral."

6. The risk of permanently damaging your testimony as a Christian. You'll never be able to honestly say, "I was a virgin before I was married." You'll never be able to live as an example of committed purity.

Ephesians 5:3 says, "But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper for God's holy people."

5. The risk of depression. Those who participate in premarital sex experience emotional damage that may lead to an increased chance of mental depression and emotional despair.

2 Corinthians 12:21 says, "I am afraid that when I come again my God will humble me before you, and I will be grieved over many who have sinned earlier and have not repented of the impurity, sexual sin and debauchery in which they have indulged."

4. The risk of placing your future children in spiritual harm's way. The Bible clearly speaks of the concept of generational sin. What you sow (plant) spiritually may be reaped in the life of your children. Remain pure before God and you'll be tenaciously guarding the future of the next generation.

Proverbs 20:7 says, "The righteous man leads a blameless life; blessed are his children after him."

3. The risk of sexual dysfunction. People spend millions of dollars to correct sexual dysfunction through drugs and psychotherapy. Why? Because they entered marriage with unresolved sexual issues. For example, a man may think that he will be free from the curse of pornography once he gets married, only to find that the problems are even more noticeable and controlling. Sexual purity before marriage is the first step to incredible sexual fulfillment after marriage.

Mark 7:21 says, "For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual immorality, theft, murder, adultery,"

2. The risk of shame. Premarital sex imputes a spiritual state of shame that becomes a major weapon for our enemy. God forgives you, but you will still be vulnerable to Satan's whispering accusations on your worth.

1 Corinthians 5:1-2 says, "It is actually reported that there is sexual immorality among you . . . Shouldn't you rather have been filled with grief?"

1. The risk of disobeying God and letting Satan get a foothold. The Bible, time after time tells us to flee sexual sins. Why? Because it is a major strategy of the devil to sabotage God's work on Earth. How can God work through you, when you aren't living up to His standards?

1 Thessalonians 4:3 says, "It is God's will that you should be sanctified: that you should avoid sexual immorality."

So, what do you think?

Wednesday, November 15, 2006

10 Questions for Wanda Dyson.

10 Questions for Wanda Dyson.

Wanda Dyson is an author and a Christian counselor who specializes in helping women recover from depression, anxiety, rejection, and the long-term effects of sexual and physical assault. She lives in Frederick County, Maryland.

1. Tricia.. Hi Wanda, I read on your website, "I never started out to write suspense." What did you start out to write? How did your plans change?

Wanda.. I started out to these thought-provoking, issue-driven general fiction novels. I have about 5 or 6 of them stuck away in a filing cabinet. Then a publisher wanted Abduction which wasn't written yet, so when it went to contract, surprising me with a 90 day deadline, I had to hurry off to write it. It came out more of a page-turning, high octane police thriller and the editor liked it so much, she wanted me to write more of them. When you're just getting started and an editor tells you that you're a natural with thrillers, you grab it gratefully and run off to write another one. :)

2. Tricia.. I see you've been part of numerous writer's conference this year. What is your most humorous conference experience?

Wanda.. I'm usually "all-business" when I'm at conferences -- taking care of appointments, running off to teach classes, then rushing back to meet with writers, critiquing manuscripts, etc. On the last day of ACFW in Dallas, there was a book signing event and I had been so wrapped up in setting up the appointment schedules before heading off to Dallas, that I had totally forgotten about it. And then suddenly, here I was sitting there, watching people setting up their tables with pretty decorations and candy and cookies and bookmarks and buttons. Something just came over me... I threw caution to the wind and decided time for "business" was over and it was time to have fun. I went running around to everyone's table and collected little bits and pieces from all the other writers and used it to set up my table... and when people would come by, I'd offer them something from Susan Warren or Lena Dooley or Kristin Billerbeck or Cathy Hake and told them I'd be glad to sign Susan's name, Lena's name, Kristen's name, etc... we were all laughing so hard and I just had a ball goofing with everyone. And the girl that shared the table with me had brought this beautiful beaded scarf that her aunt had made for her. I told every person that came up and remarked on its beauty that I had made it... which would send this girl into stitches.. (I wish I could remember her name) and then she would tell them no, her deceased aunt had made, to which I would reply.. "I look pretty good for being dead, don't I?"

3. Tricia.. Why do you recommend that new writers attend conferences?

Wanda.. New writers are so isolated from what writers are . What I mean is, we have family and friends, but we never quite "fit" because we are purveyors of the imagination and the tellers of stories. You walk into a writers conference and suddenly you realize that you really aren't so "different" after all. You are part of a big family of purveyors and tellers and dreamers and "quirky" personalities that don't think it's the least bit unusual to talk to your characters or to stare into space for hours with a blank stare and when asked what's they're doing, reply "working." You come to a conference and you are embraced for all that you are and celebrated for it, not looked askance for it. You find friends to brainstorm with, cry with, rejoice with. You build relationships with editors and agents and writers from every genre. It sends you home with a deeper understanding of just what it is the Lord has called you to do... and to be.

4. Tricia.. Of course, your writing that has gained the most attention lately is your non-fiction project, Why I Jumped . Can you tell me a little about this project?

Wanda.. In July of 2004, I was watching the news and I saw this incredible footage from a police dash-cam of a woman walking over to the edge of a bridge and jumping off... and this police officer racing over to her, thrusting out his hand... and snagging her wrist in what was nothing less than a miracle of split-second timing. I remember thinking that if he'd just fumbled with his seatbelt... or had parked three feet further away...that woman would be gone. A year later, my agent called me and asked me if I'd be interested in writing the story. I was a little confused, to be honest. Why a suspense writer for a non-fiction story? Luckily for me, they wanted a writer that could create all the page-turning elements of a good novel, and at the same time, use the experience of a tender touch in ministering to the wounded to help bring Tina through the re-creation of a past best forgotten. The more I dug into the story, the more convinced I was that it was more than a story about post-partum depression or child abuse. It was a story of God's grace. And the incredible lengths He will go to in drawing us closer to Himself. The result landed the book on the Oprah Show and Good Morning America.

5. Tricia.. So, what surprised you most about being on Oprah?

Wanda.. Being there! LOL.... Seriously, though...everything about it was fascinating to me... the way they stoke up the audience before Oprah comes out, the way the cameras are set up, the stage, the lights.. seeing Lionel Ritchie and BeBe Winans! I was surprised Oprah really didn't interact much with the audience--she came out, did the show, thanked us for being there and left. I guess I expected a little more, but I'm not sure why I expected that. But the biggest surprise was the security. They took our purses, searched them, removed all cameras, cell phones, etc, made us walk through metal detectors, and then gave us claim tickets for the possessions they would hold until after the show. And I thought airport security was tight!

6. Tricia.. Limo or horse-drawn carriage?

Wanda.. Which do I prefer? Or which am I? LOL... both would probably be horse-drawn carriage. I mean.. what else would a woman that owns 14 horses say?

7. Tricia.. If you could choose one of your books to be made into a major motion picture, which book would you choose? Who would you pick to play your main characters?

Wanda.. Abduction ... Keira Knightley (Pirates of the Caribbean) for Zoe, Owen Wilson (Behind Enemy Lines) for Donnie Bevere, and John Cere (The Marine) for JJ.

8. Tricia.. When you pick up a novel, are you swept away . . . or do you read to learn?

Wanda.. I hope to be swept away, but unfortunately that doesn't happen nearly as often as I'd like it to. Mostly, I pick it apart and learn from it.

9. Tricia.. Tell me about your favorite season and what you see outside your window during this season.

Wanda.. Spring is my favorite season. I often sit here in my office and stare out the window... the three board white horse fencing that needs painting again this year, the hyacinths in full bloom like a bright yellow cloud hovering around the fence, the horses grazing in the pasture--the older ones trying to ignore the young ones running around, kicking up their heels in the pure joy of warm weather and green grass to graze on, a barn cat stretched out in the sun by the barn, sloping green hills and the soft white apple blossoms drifting down like snow past the window.

10. Tricia.. What helps you most when you're under deadline?

Wanda.. The deadline. :) and caffeine. I'm one of those that work best under the pressure of a deadline. I keep promising myself that next time, I'm NOT going to wait until the last minute to write the book, but somehow, life gets in the way until the deadline becomes this looming monster sitting on my desk, ticking like Big Ben.

Thanks Tricia!!!!
Wanda Dyson
www.WandaDyson.com
2006 ACFW Book of the Year Finalist - Suspense
Keep Me In Suspense...with Wanda Dyson Novels
Available at your local or online bookstore
http://www.keepmeinsuspense.com/

Tuesday, November 14, 2006

10 Questions for Nancy Sebastian Meyer

10 Questions for Nancy Sebastian Meyer


Nancy's ministry, called Hope4Hearts, helps wives, women, mothers, and daughters to hear God's Word, understand His truths, and apply godly principles to their lives. Always and foremost, she communicates God's love, hope, grace, and peace. She has a new book, Talk Easy, Listen Hard: Real Communication for Two Really Different People, and a new CD called Heart Hope . Her third book is coming in March with NavPress, called Spiritually Single Moms: Raising Godly Kids When Dad Doesn't Believe.

1. Tricia: Nancy, first start by telling me a little about you and your writing.

Nancy: First, my writing ability is a gift from God (I got C's in HS composition classes)--and knowing this is a gift keeps me humble. Second, my husband (a pastor-turned-agnostic) gives me permission to write about our story and my faith, which is also a rare gift from God - for such a time as this. These gifts make it possible for me to share hope and healing with hurting women - from inside the pain, instead of the "other side" - and women really respond! At my first writers conference, God turned my desire to write inspirational fiction into a passionate calling to communicate God's hope. Nine years and five books later, the passion remains and God remains faithful!

2. Tricia: One of your speaking topics really caught my interest. The title is "You Are So Beautiful." Why do you feel women today have such a hard time believing they are beautiful?

Nancy: Satan's lies abound in our culture today! He delights in dissatisfying us with ourselves and with the One who loves us beyond anything we can imagine. Women need to hear the refreshing truth from Psalm 139 that we are completely known and loved by the Creator and Sustainer of the Universe (as His child, does this not make me Miss Universe?)!

3. Tricia: You travel often to speak. Have you had any traveling stories worthy of making it into your talks?

Nancy: Hmm. Not yet--but that's a good thing, right? (smile) I've got plenty of other humiliating stories that make it into my talks and bring smiles to the faces of women who are silly just like me (aren't we all?)!

4. Tricia: You encourage parents and spouses to look "beyond expectations." How can they do this in practical ways?

Nancy: Because our human nature sinfully wants everyone to serve us, we are often disappointed when people fail our expectations. So I've learned a phrase I try to live by: "All hope, no expectations." This means, I put my hope in God and not in what my humanity dictates is best for me. Practically speaking, this means I've given the stuff I don't like about other people to God, and I deliberately focus on what I LIKE about them. I keep a list of things I love about my husband in the back of my Bible. When I'm tempted to feel hurt because of something unkind he does or says, I look at my list and refresh my mind about all of the things I like, instead of dwelling on the negative. This is the practical outworking of Philippians 4:8 that tells us to concentrate on the good things.

5. Tricia: Convertible or mini-van?

Nancy: Convertible, no contest - and definitely bright red!

6. Tricia: You have a new book for Spiritually Single Parents. How common is this?
What does your book offer?
Nancy: Sadly, too many women today are spiritually single (husband is still part of the family, but is spiritually apathetic, antagonistic, or absent). Spiritually Single Moms: Raising Godly Kids When Dad Doesn't Believe, offers these moms a sense of community - finally someone is talking about it and they don't feel alone anymore. The book also offers God's truth on how to cut back on the resentment, guilt, and over-acheiving that is zapping our strength - when the reality is: more is caught than taught. If WE don't see Jesus, how can we show Him to our kids? The book is about DOING less, and BEING more of the godly mom your kids need to experience.

7. Tricia: There are writers who speak and speakers who write. Which are you?

Nancy: I'm one of the rare (odd) ones that loves both sides equally.

8. Tricia: If you could get a captive audience of any specific group of woman, who would you want to talk to? What would you tell them?

Nancy: I would speak to wives, because marriage comes before mothering and greatly impacts mothering. I would talk to them about 1) how to live life attuned to God's perspective, 2) how to decipher and delight in the differences God beautifully creates in each couple for their good and His glory, 3) how to forgive, keep short accounts with a spouse, and learn to praise him, and 4) how to become a sexually passionate woman for her man! These are the four sessions of WOW--the Wives Only Workshop--which we just launched in Lancaster this October!
WOW--the results from the impact of God's truths have been amazing!

9. Tricia: What are your top three favorite movies? What do you think this says about you?

Nancy: While You Were Sleeping, Sabrina , and Ever After. I am a sappy romantic - and proud of it! And maybe one of these days, God will release me to go back to inspirational romance writing - I hope, I hope. (smile)

10. Tricia: What is one way that God has surprised you this year?

Nancy: He grew my faith. At 45, with 40 of those year spent as a Christian, I thought I'd figured out that my strongest spiritual gift is faith (followed quickly by teaching and encouragement). We've been planning WOW (see #8) for over 18 months. He's kept me on my knees every day, all along the way. He's tested and tried my faith. Others said we would be lucky to get over 300 to come to this first-ever event. Our numbers last weekend were over 860, our budget came in as needed (God is never late, but He is seldom early, either!), and the staff of amazing volunteers totally humbled me. There is a fine line between faith and foolishness, and I'm still not always sure where it is. But I choose faith--I choose to believe--I choose to take the leap. Thank you, God, for being faithful!


Love, Nancy
http://www.classervices.com/nancymeyer.htm
Talk Easy, Listen Hard: Real Communication for Two Really Different People
(Moody Publishers, October 2006).
Sometimes opposites attract...that is, until they start repelling. And when a couple's differences go uncelebrated, communication quickly breaks down. Nancy Sebastian Meyer addresses three important factors affecting communication: personality types, thought continuums, and love languages. With wit, wisdom, and the Word of God, Nancy shows you how to enjoy being the person God created and how to better understand and communicate with the special person in your life. From engagement to the golden years, couples can continue to connect, talk easy, and listen hard.

Lebensborn--Source of Life


Sacred shall be every mother of good blood.

~from the articles of association of the LEBENSBORN Society

Since there is such a huge interest in Lebensborn homes as of late, I thought I'd share some of what I learned during research.

In Arms of Deliverance, the story centers around the Lebensborn home in Belgium. These are photos of the castle that was used for the home.

The SS opened the Ardennen Lebensborn home in March 1943 at Wegimont bei Lüttich. Pregnant mothers with Germanic blood were accepted as well as children fathered by Fremdlaendi members.

The purpose of the Lebensborn Foundation was to provide "racially pure" young women a place to have birth in private away from their homes. The first home was opened in 1936 at Steinhoering, under the pseudonym "Heim Hochland" ("home high country") near Munich. The SS by the end of the World War II had set up 10 homes or nurseries. Another source notes 13 homes.

Himmler’s Lebensborn (wellspring of life) had the additional advantage that his SS men didn’t have to go to brothels where they would be exposed to venereal diseases which would impair their fighting qualities.

These were not buildings that were hidden away in some back street. The government openly publicised them and they had a white flag with a red dot in the middle to identify them to the public.

August 12, Hitler's mother's birthday became the Day of the German Mother.

The Lebensborn hom in Belgium was abandoned, November 13 1944. The children were taken into Germany--many to never discover their fate.

Lebensborn


Well folks it seems the whole world is a buzz about homes in the days of Nazi Germany where women would birth children for the Reich.

Everyone's talking about it:

The New York Times
WERNIGERODE, Germany, Nov. 4 — For Guntram Weber, the journey that led to this quaint town of horse-drawn carts and half-timbered houses was long, wrenching, and anything but redemptive.

Four years ago, Mr. Weber discovered that his father was not, as his mother had told him, a young soldier who died honorably on the battlefield during World War II. Instead, he was a high-ranking SS officer, who oversaw the deaths of tens of thousands of people while stationed in what is now western Poland.

CBS News
(AP) For decades they suffered in silence, aging Germans who as children were selected by the Nazis for their Aryan qualities and handed over to SS families. Collectively known as "Lebensborn children," some will gather publicly Saturday for the first time.

Many are trying to make peace with pasts they long kept cloaked from shame. They are asking questions, tracing their roots and demanding that the truth be told about SS chief Heinrich Himmler's Lebensborn, or "Source of Life," program."

It is an important issue and it is time that it finally comes to light," said 64-year-old Dagmar Jung, whose adoptive parents refused for years to answer her questions about her past as a Lebensborn child.

Also check out:
Time Online UK

Internation Herald Tribune

London Free Press

(And there are a TON more online!)

First of all, I wish I had all these new articles when I was researching for my novel, Arms of Deliverance. At the time, Lebensborn information was hard to find.

But mostly I'm thrilled that this story is getting exposure. The truth was when I told people that my novel, Arms of Deliverance was about Lebensborn homes most people had no idea what they were about.

In my novel, Katrine, a Jew in hiding does "too well" in her cover as an Aryan, and she finds herself pregnant by a Nazi officer who works for the Office of Radical Purity. Katrine is taken to a Lebensborn home, and she realizes that both her life, and her child's, are at stake if anyone discovers her true identity.

This story centers around the one Lebensborn home in Belgium. Very little is known about this home, but I was able to get amazing information from a friend and historian who grew up in the area!

I won't tell you more about the story, but it's a page-turning story if I say so myself.

So, how long do you think it will take before Oprah has some of these Lebensborn children on her show?

Do you think she'd be interested in having my book in her book club????

Maybe if we ALL email her and tell her??? What do you think!

Monday, November 13, 2006

Generation NeXt Parenting: God Loves Clean Floors

Generation NeXt Parenting: God Loves Clean Floors

Sisters!

In four days I'll be traveling to California to meet three of my four sisters for the first time ever.

If you haven't read about how I got to know them, read here.

Mostly, I've been overwhelmed by how amazingly awesome they are! They have totally welcomed me into the family and have been so happy to include me.

In fact, I got the biggest smile today when my sister Melissa photoshopped me in to their family photo. Then, my sister Lesley tweaked it a bit and added SISTERS.

Don't you love it?

I do!
Where on the Internet is Tricia Goyer?

Mom-2-Mom-Connection. Includes a drawing for a free copy of Generation NeXt Parenting!

Ditto on: Portrait of a Writer.

Interview on Protrait of a Writer.

A mention on Pieces of Me.

10 Questions for Carol Cox

10 Questions for Carol Cox

1. Tricia: I love the description of your newest book so much, I just had to share it.

Annie Trenton's life will change forever at the 1893 World's Fair. Annie and her late husband's partner, Silas Crockett, step off the train at the great world's fair in Chicago and walk smack into political intrigue. When a stranger accidentally collides with Silas, more than a satchel is unintentionally exchanged, drawing Annie, Silas, and a handsome rodeo rider into a world of deceptions and conspiracies. When Annie's keen powers of observation threaten to expose devious plots, more than her exhibition plans hang in the balance.

Can you give us a little information about the setting?

Carol: I'd love to! The 1893 Chicago World's Fair has to be one of the most fascinating settings I've ever come across. I'm amazed it hasn't been used more often. The fairgrounds itself was huge, spread out over 600 acres along the shore of Lake Michigan and interlaced with lagoons and waterways. The buildings that made up the Court of Honor fit right into that grand scale. The Manufactures Building alone covered 30 acres. Then there's the vast array of exhibits, from Edison's Kinetoscope to the lavish Tiffany display to smile-inducing items like the Giant Cheese from Canada (weighing in at over 20,000 pounds) and the model of a Spanish conquistador made of dried prunes. Just a mind-boggling assortment!

Poor Annie has to weather the transition from small-town life to the hubbub of the fair while coping with lovable but absent-minded Silas, her greedy in-laws, and a troubling series of mysterious events. It was great fun putting her in that setting and seeing how she'd react. I would love to have been able to see it all in person. If they ever do come up with a way to time travel, that's one place I want to visit!

2. Tricia: Considering your husband's two jobs, would it be safe to say he lives like a preacher and dresses like an outlaw? Why this unique combination of work?

Carol: LOL That's a pretty good description! He might prefer to say he dresses like an Old West parson, though. He's spent most of his life working with leather as his creative outlet. Using his artistic ability, he has become one of the best leather carvers in the country and uses his knowledge of history to make accurate reproductions of saddles and gun belts from days gone by. He says God called him to be a pastor, but allows him to be a saddlemaker. It's a happy combination.

Thankfully, the whole family enjoys history. I call our ten-year-old daughter a museumoholic. Turn her loose in a display of old relics, and she is one happy girl. Our grown son has a love of the Old West, too. He once made his living robbing trains, but has since given up his life of crime and settled down. His last heist occurred two days before his wedding, so it's nice to know he's been reformed by the love of a good woman.

3. Tricia: What are some of your own personal rules for your inspirational fiction?

Carol: The story comes first. Being able to share a Christian worldview in my writing is a tremendous privilege, but inspirational fiction is no place to preach a sermon. The message should be inherent in the story and characters and their development. There are so many ways to show how God is at work in our lives, there really is no excuse to turn a captivating story into a heavyhanded lesson.

4. Tricia: What's the first story you remember that transported you to another world?

Carol: When I was five, my dad brought home a book called The Happy Hollisters and challenged me to read it by myself. What? No pictures?? LOL It was my first venture into the world of full-length books. I dipped my toe into the unfamiliar waters, then dived in with a happy splash. I loved spending time getting to know the characters and solving mysteries along with the kids in that fictional family. Better yet, I discovered it was book one in a whole series of titles. Right then, I became hooked on both mysteries and series fiction, something I've never outgrown.

5. Tricia: What is one special talent you have that has nothing to do with fiction writing?

Carol: Here's one you probably don't hear every day: I'm a whiz at stacking firewood. We cut the wood we use to heat our home during the winter, so that talent comes in quite handy. In fact, I'm putting it to use right now. I'm writing this on my laptop up on the side of Bill Williams Mountain while my husband cuts aspen logs into two-foot lengths. In a few minutes, he'll have enough ready to load onto our trailer, and The Mighty Stacker (that's me) will spring into action. Hey, it looks like he's ready right now, so I'll go flex my muscles (I do have some--they're just well-hidden) and be back in a moment.

Back again, and I thought of another talent while I was hefting those chunks of wood around. I also enjoy handcrafts, especially crocheting. There's something very relaxing and satisfying about letting my fingers do the work while my mind runs free. That may be something that has to be put on the back burner for a while, though. I was frantically working away on Christmas gifts last year, and apparently overused my thumb. After all these months, it still doesn't want to work the way it's supposed to. Do I get a lot of sympathy for this? Nope. Some people get tennis elbow; I wind up with crochet thumb. Somehow, it just doesn't command a high level of respect.

6. Tricia: If you had to dress as one of your characters for a day, who would you pick? What would you wear?

Carol: No question about it--Annie Trenton from Ticket to Tomorrow. I love those 1890s styles--graceful, yet practical. The bustle was on the way out, making the fashions a bit more comfortable, although corsets were still an essential wardrobe item. If I were to go through Annie's closet, I'd pick out a puffy-sleeved waist and gored skirt in a soft rose fabric. In fact, I have a set of historically accurate patterns to make that very outfit--including the all-important corset. So why haven't I done that yet? Well, between family and writing and church responsibilities, it seems like the time just slips away.
Or maybe I have some sort of corset phobia. . .

7. Tricia: Do those who know you best see a bit of "you" within your characters? In what way?

Carol: That happens a lot! And it always suprises me, because the things they claim to see--spunkiness, determination, and self-reliance--aren't qualities I'd use in describing myself. But as long as they think it's an accurate picture of me, I'm not about to disillusion them. : )


8. Tricia: If you could excel in any talent in addition to writing, what would your choose?

Carol: It would be something connected with music. I play the piano at both our churches and manage to muddle my way through fairly well, but I'd love to be able to play flawlessly and with supreme confidence. I'd also love to play the guitar with real skill instead of just strumming the handful of chords I know. (Is there an easy way to play an F Major, by the way? My fingers simply do not want to cooperate on that one!)

And then there's singing. I'm not asking to be a second Twila Paris. I'd be a happy camper if I could produce a sound that doesn't make the dog whimper or threaten to shatter glass. My husband says I'm too hard on myself, but think about it--the man has spent a lot of time out at the shooting range. I'm not sure his hearing is what it used to be, you know?


9. Tricia: How do you see your writing developing over the next five years? What goals have you set for yourself?

Carol: That question makes me think of New Year's resolutions. I'm great at making them, but my success rate at crossing them all off my list is something else again.
But hey, I'll give it a try. . .

This goes against the current trend, but I would love to write an ongoing series, where readers can follow the same characters through a whole string of books instead of a handful of titles. As I mentioned before, that's the kind of reading I enjoyed growing up, and still love today. And, of course, I want to continue to learn and grow as a writer. There's always a higher level to aim for. That's part of what makes writing such a fascinating occupation!

10. Tricia: In what ways does God meet you at the keyboard?

Carol: Years ago, a workshop leader at a writers' conference made the statement, "It's not about me; it's about Him." That simple comment turned out to be one of the most profound things I learned at the conference, and the truth of those words has been brought home to me over and over again. When I sit down to write, I am very much aware of the fact that I can't do it on my own. I know beyond a doubt it all has to be done through Him and His strength.

I can't begin to count the number of times I've come up with the bare bones of a story idea, then watched Him bring the pieces together, adding texture and depth I never dreamed of. It's an amazing part of the process, where I almost step back and become a spectator instead of a participant.


Thanks, Carol
www.carolcoxbooks.com

Saturday, November 11, 2006

Veterans Day







Today is Veteran's Day. While kids like getting out of school and department stores have massive sales there is another, better reason to celebrate this day ...

In fact, instead of telling you, I'll show you by sharing some photos MY veteran friends shared with me.

What is Veteran's Day? You can watch a one minute video here.

Want to hear about the true stories? You can find them on my From Dust and Ashes website or my Unforgettable Stories of World War II website.






"I read a book recently that gave me a little insight as to why I do . . ."

I just recieved an awesome review of Generation NeXt Parenting. Check it out at:

Surviving the Chaos Blog

Here is a quote from Chaos-Jamie:

"I read a book recently that gave me a little insight as to why I do what I do in regard to parenting my children. And I thought I was just nuts. Apparently, there is this whole generation of us who want to "do it right" and that doesn't necessarily mean the way our parents did it.

"Okay, fess up parents (the 45 and under crowd), you've read at least one parenting book, haven't you? And probably not just one....say 10? At least skimmed. Because we don't want to screw up our kids, do we? I want to get it right. So much responsibility. So many things that can go wrong. So much judgement--or we see it even if it isn't there--if only from ourselves.

"So I picked up Generation NeXt Parenting by Tricia Goyer expecting her to tell me how to do it right. And she didn't.

"The nerve. The audacity. Ah, the freedom . . ."

It's really a great review if I said so myself.

Friday, November 10, 2006

Guest Blogger...Stacy Stallings

Risk In the Real World

Meet Stacy: I'm a stay-at-home mom with three kids, a husband, and a writing addiction on the side. My greatest accomplishment is learning to live in the ever-abundant provision of God!

And when He had finished speaking, He said to Simon, “Put out into the deep water and let down your nets for a catch.” And Simon Peter answered, “Master, we worked hard all night and caught nothing, but at Your bidding I will let down the nets.” And when they had done this, they enclosed a great quantity of fish; and their nets began to break… --Luke 5:4-7

‘Put out into the deep water.’ How many of us never take the time to really understand the significance of these words? We are too busy floating along and trying to stay in control on the shallow water to even think of putting out to the deep water. But why did Jesus tell the apostles to put out to the deep water?

Simple. That’s where the fish were. To understand why, you must understand the principles and the assumptions that the apostles were making. First, at this time, there were no motors. When you were on the water, you were at the mercy of the wind and the elements, and the further out you went, the more this was true and the less the chances that you were going to make it back to the shore. In fact, it was the fishermen who were the real risk-takers in Jesus’ time. These were men who finessed the boundaries of safety just to do their jobs on an everyday basis.

So, when Jesus told Peter to put out into the deep water, Peter knew well what the deep water represented—risk. Ultimate risk. Death if the winds caught the boat and they couldn’t get back to the shore. The very act of obeying the command shows Peter’s faith. What he couldn’t know was what the Lord already did. Every other fisherman in the region had already fished in the shallow water, it was out in the deep that the overwhelming quantities could be found.

This lesson is no less true today and was recently brought into focus for me in a very modern-day way. As a webmaster, one of my tasks is to get people to know my site exists. In doing this, I have taken several avenues—one of which is having an on-going link campaign. In layman’s terms, this means going out surfing for hours, searching for sites to approach to ask if they would be willing to link to my site, and thus give surfers one more way to find me. It is a time-consuming and very often frustrating undertaking.

Because I write Inspirational Romance, I try to contact sites that fit into one of the following categories: Christian, women, writing, and romance. Now, let’s talk risk. On one side, I have people who are adamant about traditional values, family-friendly messages, and staunch, unbending Christianity. On the other side I have romance sites which often bend toward decidedly un-Christian values. I find myself on the tightrope in between, wishing that both could understand how close they really are. In our society we have unfortunately gotten the message that romance and God are mutually exclusive. The reason of course is that romance is equated with sex (generally outside of marriage) and God condemns these kinds of practices. The very fact that I choose to write Inspirational Romance should tell you that I don’t buy into this myth.

To me, there is nothing more holy than a man and woman who have committed themselves to each other through God’s love. For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh.--Ephesians 5: 31

The problem is too many equate romance with prurient sex, base the opening days of a relationship on sex, and believe that they have to because “everybody else does.” Thus, no one puts God into the relationship until they are ready to get married. Then they want the big church wedding, and the soul-fulfilling notion of standing before God and man and commit themselves to each other—although they haven’t bothered to acknowledge God’s presence in the relationship until that moment. And we wonder why the divorce rate is high. Wouldn’t it be far better to promote a message that encourages couples to invite God into the relationship from the very beginning, trusting in Him to guide both partners, and believing that if it is meant to work in His great plan, it will? This is the message that I’m trying to get out.

However, this is not a message that is even an option on many sites labeled “romance.” Nonetheless, because I believe this is an option that no one should go into a relationship without being exposed to, I try to put my site link on pages that promote romance, which means they are listed on pages with the romance equals sex idea. This upsets some of the Christian sites that I approach. Now I’m not saying this message is on my site, it is in linking to sites that have this on their sites that I get into trouble.

Of course, my other option is to absolutely not allow any site with anything resembling this message linking with mine (knowing that my link won’t be on their site because of this policy and thus will not be on many if any romance sites). Thus, when someone searches for romance, their options will be only those sites